Depression, Sadness, Blegh-days, sometimes you just feel a bit crap.
True to Dr Seuss un-slumping yourself is not easily done. That is unless you know a few little tricks of psychology that can make all the difference.
When you’re in a slump, give these 5 tips a go and notice the magical effect they can have on your mood…
Allow yourself to really feel what you’re feeling for 3 minutes. Breathe it in. Be sad. Be angry. Be helpless, whatever you’re feeling and trying to squash down. Most of the time it only takes a few seconds of truly allowing yourself to feel that the emotion passes.
Once you’ve decided you’ve had enough, look up, stand up with your arms and legs out wide in a star shape, and put a big silly grin on your face. You may have to take yourself off to the bathroom, or lock yourself in your office with the blinds closed first.
Breathe deeply, if your arms get tired put them on your hips, wonder woman style.
Imagine breathing in power & calm, sucking it in through your feet from the earth, breathing it in through your lungs in the air, absorbing it in your skin.
Bonus points if you can do this where you get natural light on your face, absorb the power of fire of the sun and ground your feet on the earth, barefoot. Double bonus points if you can get near or in the ocean. just being in nature has dramatic effects on our mood.
If there is a particular event or memory or worry that is working you up, use some NLP tricks to reduce its power. Bring up a picture of the memory, notice where it is in relation to your face. Whether it is big or small, colour or black and white, focussed or defocussed, framed or panoramic, a movie or still photo, how near or far, are you in the picture or looking through your own eyes as if you were living or reliving it?
Now play with these sub-modalities to reduce its effect on you. Take the picture and step out of it, make it a still photo, notice you can see yourself in it. Move it far away from your face, turn it to black and white and defocus it, put a frame around it, and maybe give it a sepia tone like an old faded photograph. Then if it is from your past, move it behind you, far behind you to the horizon. Notice how that shifts how you feel. once the emotion is dissipated, imagine locking it in place like that.
Once the emotion has dissipated, ask your inner wisdom, what can I learn from this? what can I do now in my future having learned from this?
This process uses multiple techniques to help you shift your emotional state from a physiological, hormonal, energetic, and psychological aspect. Give it a go. Un-slumping yourself is easily done, when you know how…
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