In his vid, he said it’s “mental masturbation” if it is not in a specific context and doesn’t create measurable results.
I at once totally agree, and also totally disagree.
Yes, mindset coaching without context and a clear outcome is pointless. Any Coach worth their salt knows that they must be clear on the clients’ Present State, Desired State in the first session, and all work must support the creation of the Desired State.
No, it’s not a con. Even if the results are as subtle as feeling better in the first instance. When you feel better, you can make better choices, leading to better results. For many people who’ve suffered with trauma, feeling better is a HUGE result in itself.
Yes, of course you need to take action and getting help with strategy from an expert consultant is a great idea. There is a need and a place for both.
To be honest, it got me down for a day or so to hear someone I admire so much, and who has such a powerful voice in the coaching industry put down this complex and deeply nuanced work that has helped me so profoundly and been a huge influence in my life.
To be clear, this mentor has helped me tremendously in business, he’s 100% entitled to his perspective, it wasn’t a personal criticism of me of my work and I still think he is a legend doing truly amazing work helping coaches leverage and build profitable businesses.
Deep transformational work in the Unconscious Mind often requires time to digest and integrate, and then for the person to take the action and create the result.
It is complex and profound.
Sometimes it’s instant. Some change seems like magic. If you have a lot of groundwork in place, a mindset & energy shift can lead to seemingly magical changes.
Sometimes it takes months.
The inner change is instantly seen, felt and measured, but the kind of change that other people see takes time.
It’s a completely different type of coaching to Business Strategy coaching – where you give a specific tactic, and it can be immediately implemented and get a clear, obvious result.
If you’ve been finding that even after investing thousands and being taught all the right strategies from Business Coaches, you’re still struggling to implement, or you’ve been implementing like crazy, but you just can’t get the strategies to work…
I can 100% GUARANTEE that you have Unconscious Internal Obstacles to having that success.
I’m not interested in teaching strategies & tactics for business or weight loss. There are already thousands of business coaches & weight loss coaches, many copying each other, teaching much the same thing.
I am a Master at aligning your INNER WORLD, so you can perform in your OUTER WORLD. Yes, we have clear outcomes we work towards, but I won’t tell you what to do. 99% of the time you know what you need to do. I help you get out of your own way.
That’s why after years of working in health with consumers, now I’m turning my attention and focus to supporting Wellness Business Owners to make the massive internal transformations that I’m a specialist at creating. When I work with someone who is already in flow, already taking big action and who has a lot of groundwork in place, the results from the internal shifts are EPIC!!! Exponential growth that ripples out across the community.
Wellness businesses leaders are out there doing the grass roots work to help people in their fitness, nutrition, health, self-care. You’ve got the strategies to support your clients. But who is supporting YOU? Who is helping you to step into the Magnetic Leadership that you need to grow and lead your business? Who is helping you to up-skill your team and help them to help your clients better?
I was listening to a podcast with an evolutionary philosopher Daniel Schmactenberger who said “Capitalism rewards sociopathic behaviours”. (Very much seen in the Netflix show Billions.) This win-lose, hierarchical, reductionist dynamic is built into the capitalist system, when the business owners’ goal is to make money at any cost.
But there are a growing number of business owners who aspire to the outcomes of Conscious Capitalism. They use their business to do good, and work to meeting a triple bottom line of positive outcomes for all stakeholders; people, planet, & profits. This is an easy leap forward in Service and Wellness Businesses, when the core product is human interaction and information. It is requires a lot more effort in businesses that sell tangible things. (by the production line nature of creating things en-masse at profit)
My own recently upgraded mission is to support the deep integration of Spirit into Business; unleashing more of these new wave of higher purpose business owners.
I’m a bridge-builder between the intangible & the tangible – unlocking hidden potential, energy and wisdom that lives inside you right now. If your Spirit & Purpose is NOT 100% integrated in your business then your success will only ever be capped, short-lived and quite likely, somewhat miserable.
That’s why I’m opening up a few 1:1 Coaching places for Wellness Business owners who have a team of 5+ full time staff. If all this resonates and you’re looking for help to align your inner world to perform better in your business we can schedule a call to see if and how I can help.
“Having ongoing training is essential for our team and our business. It’s important to look after the people that look after others. Kylie has the experience, professionalism and knowledge to engage with our team and help them understand about human behaviour and why people do what they do. In the wellness and health industry it’s a different sales and service delivery and it’s imperative to keep on top of these understandings to perform at our best to help others. We couldn’t recommend Kylie high enough.”
“I have worked with Kylie over many years. She has helped me as a Business Mindset Coach, as a motivational speaker for my gym clients at both Vision Personal Training & now at Flow Athletic.
I bring her in to train my Personal Training teams in mindset, communication and how to coach our clients better and excel in our own personal mastery as fitness leaders.
At my recent Fitness Business event, my gym owner colleagues were blown away by her talk, saying she is the best speaker they have ever seen.
After every event we always get rave reviews about her talks and training.
I highly recommend her work.”
“I finished the Spiritual Awakening Course yesterday and I found it truly amazing. An incredible next step after our coach training. I feel so much more enlightened and “opened-up”. It has really opened my eyes to the power of the universe and the energy flowing in each of us. I loved it – thank you.
I am feeling so lucky at the moment. So many things are just falling into my lap. I visualise it and set my intention to manifest it and it comes. Things such as getting more clients, needing help to put my business online, not knowing how to get known in my local community etc. Courses / insights / clients have just fallen into my lap at the right time.”
Of course I am still learning and growing, but the course has really helped. Thank you”
“Before I met Kylie I was feeling very lost working full time in law in Sydney CBD. I’ve known my whole life that I was here to help people, but I just didn’t know exactly how. So when I found Kylie, it just was really fitting that it was going to help me ground my magic. I started the coach training and had an amazing time. It was beautiful to go through the process of having a mentor that had that spiritual element and that holistic element, as well as the very grounded science-based knowledge as well. So that really helped me to conjure that for myself.
I started my business before I even finished the course. I just started putting myself out there. And now I’ve gotten it to a point where I’ve got really grounded solid message, and two years later am running a multi-6 figure coaching business as a leading pioneer in my niche, helping clients all over the world.”
“Before I signed up with Kylie I had a busy PT business… I was exhausted and on the brink of burnout and no matter how hard I tried, I had reached a ceiling in my income that I just couldn’t break through. After completing my NLP Coaching certification, I found my true voice and the energy of my business has been completely transformed. I’ve created an online program, up-levelled my entire business and totally smashed my previous income goals. I make decisions more confidently and I can help my clients create change in their life even faster. On a personal level, NLP gave me the inner strength to leave a toxic situation and rebuild myself which lead to me discovering the love of my life! Today I am living the life that I’ve always wanted – but just hadn’t been able to put into words. I have never been this happy or this powerful. If you want to manifest the life of your dreams I would not hesitate to reach out for help from Kylie.”
Before attaining my NLP Coach certification, I was an online trainer who was getting excellent results for “some” of my clients. I used a mixture of experience, intuition and an exhausting “helicopter-parent” style of accountability coaching. It was like the 20% of the clients who weren’t getting good results took up 80% of my effort, and it was draining my passion for my business. This meant my income was never predictable, I worked way too many hours, and I was constantly putting out spot-fires for energy-vampire clients.
Completing my Certification with Kylie has been the best decision of my career. The very next month after finishing I created a new and improved program with better boundaries and made $30,000 in new sales. I now have a repeatable system to coach my clients and I can get them both immediate AND long-lasting change, sometimes in less than 40 minutes.
In the past 12 months, I have doubled my freedom and fulfillment in my business I have created raving clients who snap up my offers and I’ve breathed fresh air into my business creativity. My income has remained the same, whilst I have halved the amount of work I was doing. This has given me the freedom to be a present mum and earn an excellent income from home.
I signed up with Kylie because I knew that to have a bigger effect as a PT I needed to improve my understanding of how the mind works. Through NLP Coach training I now have great coaching techniques that break through all sorts of negative behaviour patterns. I’ve noticed big improvements in all areas of my life including my own personal finances and my client retention. This has allowed me new freedom to work on scaling my business and helping even more people with less one on one time from myself. The coach training has given me the ability to fully unlock the power of your mindset and those that don’t have this skill are only tapping into a small amount of their potential.
This morning I had a kick-ass coaching session with Kylie Ryan.
We’ve been working together for a couple of months, and she’s the perfect person to help me integrate the rapid transformations I go through regularly. I’d been getting this vision of my fully mature creative and entrepreneurial self. His discipline, commitment, and command of wealth was 10x what mine is now, but it wasn’t really about money for him. Our coaching sessions usually roll with me saying, “Kylie, I want to be, do, and have EVERYTHING” and Kylie helping me find the archetypes and parts that aren’t integrated and bringing them together. MAGICK HAPPENS EVERY TIME.