This simple feedback loop is the why people who have success, spiral upwards to more and more success, and sometimes those who experience ‘defeat’, challenges or setback can spiral downwards into deeper and deeper hopelessness.
Your potential as a human being is so much greater than you imagine, as to be almost limitless. Amazingly, you can also increase your genetic, or physiological potential with visualisation, practice and self-belief.
The simplest way to predict the future is to create it! Your actions today determine the future you will enjoy or regret. If you have a choice between instant gratification and delayed gratification, choose delayed gratification every time. When you choose instant gratification, you will pay the price later, when you’ve long forgotten that sweet instant pleasure. When you choose delayed gratification, you quickly forget the work you put in and the rewards you receive seem almost magical. This is the secret to creating the upward spiral!
When you focus with laser clear vision on the results you want, it is almost like you can taste and feel it, experiencing the pleasure even before it has happened. Focussing on the results and what you will achieve helps you to make the tough choices early on, because you know the rewards will be so sweet!
Your mind is a stack of beliefs on beliefs. Beliefs about beliefs. You have beliefs in the back of your mind that you don’t even know are there. How do they get there? Your beliefs are seeded and created by your experiences and what you focus on about those experiences. You already have a thousand experiences of success in your memories, though you may not count them as successes yet. You learned to walk & talk, two of the most dizzyingly complex tasks a human can perform, and you did it all before the age of 4! When you focus with belief on the results you want, and you take action to make it happen, when it does happen, it re-instills certainty in your belief: you’re like: “I knew that would happen!”
Every time you watch an inspiring movie or read a book about achievement, your mind experiences that event as if it were you doing it! This is why action, adventure & romance movies are so popular, we can live vicariously through the characters. We can get emotional reading a story or watching a movie that speaks to us, and build our belief in what’s possible for people to achieve and overcome. Avoid unnecessary exposure to stories of despair and hopelessness.
Watch the sequence that happens when you just smile, whether you’re happy or not.
Action – Smile!
Result – Boosts your immune system, lowers blood pressure, releases feel good hormones
Belief – You start to think more positive thoughts
Potential – Your potential for daily happiness expands!
Action – Lean back with your arms up and out, look up. Or stand like wonder-woman.
Result – After 2 mins in a power pose your testosterone rises (thats your confidence and power hormone) and your cortisol lowers (thats your stress hormone) !
Belief – You begin to think more confident & expansive thoughts.
Potential – your likelihood of success increases.
Watch this TED video for the scientific lowdown and studies on how it works. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y4386jSnFEU
Stop yourself going into a negative spiral when you experience a setback or defeat by focussing on what you did achieve & how you can learn from it. Even Thomas Edison experienced setbacks in his inventing career, he famously said “I haven’t failed 999 times. I’ve found out 999 ways not to make the electric lightbulb!” Every ‘failure’ is one less way you ever have to try again, therefore it is one step closer to success!
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Before attaining my NLP Coach certification, I was an online trainer who was getting excellent results for “some” of my clients. I used a mixture of experience, intuition and an exhausting “helicopter-parent” style of accountability coaching. It was like the 20% of the clients who weren’t getting good results took up 80% of my effort, and it was draining my passion for my business. Completing my Certification with Kylie has been the best decision of my career. The very next month after finishing I created a new program and made $30,000 in new sales. I now have a repeatable system to coach my clients and I can get them both immediate AND long-lasting change, sometimes in less than 40 minutes. In the past 12 months, I have doubled my freedom and fulfilment in my business I have created raving clients who snap up my offers.”
I signed up with Kylie because I knew that to have a bigger effect as a PT I needed to improve my understanding of how the mind works. Through NLP Coach training I now have great coaching techniques that break through all sorts of negative behaviour patterns. I’ve noticed big improvements in all areas of my life including my own personal finances and my client retention. This has allowed me new freedom to work on scaling my business and helping even more people with less one on one time from myself. The coach training has given me the ability to fully unlock the power of your mindset and those that don’t have this skill are only tapping into a small amount of their potential.
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