Hey team! It’s Kylie Ryan here from My Mind Coach – and talking today about magnetic leadership for men.
We’re living in a really interesting time for men, and so many of the men that I speak to, so many of the entrepreneurs and the wonderful men that I have in the world around me are caring, compassionate, kind, loving, heart-centered, that really want to do the best that they can for their clients, for their community, for their families, for their children, for their partners – and they’re doing the best they can.
And I just had a really wonderful, wonderful magical session with a man that I work with, a leader in his own field and entrepreneur. We did some really powerful work around when he was a boy.
What came up, in this particular moment there are areas and places where his power is blocked, where he’s not able to experience and express at the fullest of himself and be what he’s actually here to be and the mission that he’s here to fulfill on earth. And just not having enough fun, not being able to enjoy and experience the fun that he could be experiencing.
And so what happened was that, using the Spiral coaching methodology that I’ve now added into my practice, we were able to very quickly pinpoint some specific incidences and moments and where — there were just some missing experiences from his own childhood, his moments as a boy, that then impacted the type of man that he was able to become and express.
As we work with this The Boy and The Man, then the man can become so much more self-expressed, so much more powerful, so much more of himself, because he’s not being held back unconsciously by little parts that are still trapped in that childhood imprinting missing experience.
When I think about and talk about magnetic leadership, magnetic leadership is the leadership that is able to magnetise the support and the following and the clients and the experiences that you need to be the best leader.
So what do you need to be the best leader possible, to be the leader of your family, of your tribe, of your clients, of your community? Who do you need to be in order to be that leader that inspires a following, that inspires trust, that inspires change?
And in order to be able to be someone that receives that love and care and adoration, often we need to go back and find some experiences that have been missing from that boy, that young boy that maybe wasn’t able to be honoured and seen and respected for his gifts.
When there are areas of low self-esteem or little moments of inadequacy, that can really get in the way of the man being able to stand up powerfully in his strength and in his honour and in his compassion and actually do the work that he’s meant to be doing in the world.
And so, when you do some really powerful healing work around that then all of this power suddenly comes online.
And it doesn’t need to take a long time, it can happen very quickly. It’s almost like a dam on a floodgate.
When you take away that tiny dam, all of this floodgate of energy, all of this floodgate of power, inspiration, joy, starts to course through the energetic system which then magnetises people, places, opportunities, events, new clients, greater income, better sex life, more fun, more peace, more power.
So if there are areas in your life where you feel like you’re not living in the most magnetic powerful version of you that you can, whether you’re a man or a woman, then message me and we can talk about how you can unleash more magnetic leadership in your life so that you can do what you came here to do and have fun doing it.
Speak to you soon.
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Before attaining my NLP Coach certification, I was an online trainer who was getting excellent results for “some” of my clients. I used a mixture of experience, intuition and an exhausting “helicopter-parent” style of accountability coaching. It was like the 20% of the clients who weren’t getting good results took up 80% of my effort, and it was draining my passion for my business. This meant my income was never predictable, I worked way too many hours, and I was constantly putting out spot-fires for energy-vampire clients.
Completing my Certification with Kylie has been the best decision of my career. The very next month after finishing I created a new and improved program with better boundaries and made $30,000 in new sales. I now have a repeatable system to coach my clients and I can get them both immediate AND long-lasting change, sometimes in less than 40 minutes.
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I signed up with Kylie because I knew that to have a bigger effect as a PT I needed to improve my understanding of how the mind works. Through NLP Coach training I now have great coaching techniques that break through all sorts of negative behaviour patterns. I’ve noticed big improvements in all areas of my life including my own personal finances and my client retention. This has allowed me new freedom to work on scaling my business and helping even more people with less one on one time from myself. The coach training has given me the ability to fully unlock the power of your mindset and those that don’t have this skill are only tapping into a small amount of their potential.
This morning I had a kick-ass coaching session with Kylie Ryan.
We’ve been working together for a couple of months, and she’s the perfect person to help me integrate the rapid transformations I go through regularly. I’d been getting this vision of my fully mature creative and entrepreneurial self. His discipline, commitment, and command of wealth was 10x what mine is now, but it wasn’t really about money for him. Our coaching sessions usually roll with me saying, “Kylie, I want to be, do, and have EVERYTHING” and Kylie helping me find the archetypes and parts that aren’t integrated and bringing them together. MAGICK HAPPENS EVERY TIME.